Has anyone had sex at the spa?

Sex in the thermal bath?

Hello,

I'll just describe my problem to you.

My partner and I (both in our mid-20s) have been together for over 2 years. Our relationship is very harmonious and we really love each other. My only "problem" is our sex life.

At the beginning of the relationship we slept with each other very often. Definitely 4x a week. Now only about every 2 weeks. I always try to get in "in drive" every now and then, but after I've satisfied him, he says he's not in the mood. If he wants to have sex and then I say no on principle, just to wipe him off because he doesn't always want to when I feel like it, he puts me right away as if I'm bitchy.

But now to my biggest problem.

My partner doesn't grab me down below. At the beginning of the relationship he did it and gave me one oral pleasure. He said he didn't like the lick and then I just accepted that, I couldn't do anything else. At some point he didn't touch me down below either. Unless I'm still wearing underwear.

When I asked him about it, he said that he didn't like it, which made me very sad because it seemed to be a matter of course for him that I would give him oral satisfaction or that I would scratch his balls.
For example, he likes to grab my breasts and kiss them too. The only thing where he really graces is my genital area.

We went to the outdoor pool a few months ago, where we had sex and he even fingered me in the water.

I think that he just doesn't like touching me downstairs when I'm wet, or because then I get wet, although that's quite normal.

What do you think of the whole thing? I would like to hear your opinion.

Lg GrueneBohne00 :)